Eating & Drinking — Page 2. Ordering at a Restaurant
Eating out in Italy — Culture & Rules:
- Timing: Lunch is usually 12:30–14:30, Dinner is 20:00–22:30. Restaurants often close between meals.
- Take your time! A meal is a social experience — nobody rushes you. You will not be hurried to leave your table.
- Coperto: Almost all restaurants charge a small cover charge per person (€1–€3). This includes bread on the table — it is normal, not a mistake.
- Coffee rule: After a meal, only order espresso — never cappuccino or other milky coffees!
- Antipasti — Starters / appetisers (meats, cheeses, vegetables, seafood)
- Primi — First courses: pasta, risotto, soup, gnocchi (these are main dishes, not sides!)
- Secondi — Second courses: meat, fish or poultry (the main protein)
- Contorni — Side dishes: salad, vegetables, potatoes — ordered separately
- Dolci — Desserts
- Caffè — Espresso to finish
Key Vocabulary
| Italian | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Un tavolo per… | oon tah‑vo‑lo per… | A table for… |
| Il menù | il meh‑noo | The menu |
| Il conto | il kon‑toh | The bill / check |
| Antipasto / Antipasti | an‑tee‑pah‑stoh / stee | Starter / Starters |
| Primo / Primi | pree‑moh / pree‑mee | First course(s) |
| Secondo / Secondi | seh‑kon‑doh / seh‑kon‑dee | Second / Main course(s) |
| Contorno / Contorni | kon‑tor‑noh / kon‑tor‑nee | Side dish(es) |
| Dolce / Dolci | dol‑cheh / dol‑chee | Dessert(s) |
| Consigliere qualcosa? | kon‑see‑lyeh‑reh kwal‑koh‑sah | Can you recommend something? |
| È possibile pagare con carta? | eh pos‑see‑bee‑leh pah‑gah‑reh kon kar‑tah | Can we pay by card? |
Typical restaurant menu — sections follow the order of an Italian meal. Note: Insalata Mista is listed only under Contorni (sides).
Conversation: Evening Meal
Roles:
• W2 = Server / Waitress
• W1 & M = Customers (ordering for the table / for a friend arriving soon)
• W2 = Server / Waitress
• W1 & M = Customers (ordering for the table / for a friend arriving soon)
FORMAL / RESTAURANT
Evening Meal
W1:
Buonasera, un tavolo per tre, per favore?
Good evening, a table for three, please?
Good evening, a table for three, please?
W2:
Buonasera. Prego, di qua.
Good evening. This way, please.
Good evening. This way, please.
M:
Grazie. Potrebbe portarci il menù, per favore?
Thank you. Could you bring us the menu, please?
Thank you. Could you bring us the menu, please?
W2:
Ecco a voi. Desiderate ordinare subito o aspettate?
Here you are. Would you like to order now or wait?
Here you are. Would you like to order now or wait?
W1:
Ora va bene. Per antipasto prendiamo un misto di salumi e formaggi per il tavolo.
Now is fine. For a starter, we’ll take a mixed platter of cured meats and cheeses for the table.
Now is fine. For a starter, we’ll take a mixed platter of cured meats and cheeses for the table.
W1:
Come primo io prendo la pasta alla carbonara.No secondo.
And for the first course, I’ll have the pasta carbonara. No second course.
And for the first course, I’ll have the pasta carbonara. No second course.
M:
Come primo prendo i ravioli di ricotta e spinaci e come secondo vorrei il filetto di manzo.
For the first course I’ll have the ricotta and spinach ravioli and for the second course I’d like the beef fillet.
For the first course I’ll have the ricotta and spinach ravioli and for the second course I’d like the beef fillet.
W1:
Per il nostro amico che arriva tra poco, ordiniamo il pesce del giorno, grazie. E due contorni: insalata mista e patate arrosto.
For our friend who is arriving shortly, we’ll order the fish of the day, thank you. And two sides: a mixed salad and roasted potatoes.
For our friend who is arriving shortly, we’ll order the fish of the day, thank you. And two sides: a mixed salad and roasted potatoes.
W2:
Perfetto. Da bere?
Perfect. Something to drink?
Perfect. Something to drink?
M:
Una bottiglia di vino rosso della casa e una bottiglia d’acqua naturale.
A bottle of the house red wine and a bottle of still water.
A bottle of the house red wine and a bottle of still water.
… later, after the meal …
W1:
Possiamo avere il conto, per favore? Possiamo pagare insieme con carta?
Can we have the bill, please? Can we pay together by card?
Can we have the bill, please? Can we pay together by card?
W2:
Certamente. Ecco qui.
Certainly. Here it is.
Certainly. Here it is.
M:
Grazie mille, è stato tutto delizioso!
Thank you very much, everything was delicious!
Thank you very much, everything was delicious!